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Some things that help me when I\u00a0feel like giving up<\/p>\n

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I give up, no really… I’m done!<\/p><\/div>\n

We all have times in our lives when we feel like giving up. And for some reason it seems like the older we get the more life piles on our plate. Sometimes it just gets to be too much to bear and we feel like giving up. Recently\u00a0I have had a bunch of things happen in my life and it really does seem like it is all too much. And I started doing\u00a0the “why me” and “what did I do to deserve this” thing. How do I go on from here? How do I move forward? I remember my mom saying many times that she just wanted to run away. I never understood why she said that..I do now.<\/p>\n

So this morning when I woke up I decided to stop\u00a0feeling sorry for myself and look at what was really going on. I\u00a0resolved to have a different way of looking at my life and all that was happening\u00a0around me. I have\u00a0chosen\u00a0to not let my circumstances define me any longer or how I was going to react to the situations affecting my life. Because really that is all we can do sometimes. We can’t change what is happening but we can change the way “we” react to it.<\/p>\n

When life keeps handing us lemons, do we make lemonade out of them or just let them sit there and rot? I decided to make some lemonade. I know, it is so cliche but it really works. Here are some of the things I came up with to keep moving forward and not give up.<\/p>\n

“Never, never,\u00a0never give up” ~ Winston Churchill<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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  1. Help someone else who is going through hard time. Volunteer or join a group working for the good of your town. It truly makes you feel better to take the focus off yourself and put it on someone else.<\/li>\n
  2. Turn off social media. It doesn’t do us any good when we are feeling sorry for ourselves to see all the ranting and raving going on in the world. Some one is going to say something that makes you feel even worse. So take the day off. Unplug!<\/li>\n
  3. Smile – I have heard this so many times, but it really does work. force it if you need to but do it!<\/li>\n
  4. \u00a0Laugh…watch a funny old movie or call someone that always makes you laugh. Laughter is always the best medicine.<\/li>\n
  5. Do something just for the fun of it. You remember that right? We used to have fun. Think of what you once enjoyed doing and do it again.<\/li>\n
  6. Exercise. I know you don’t think this would make you feel better but it really does. It boosts your mood by releasing\u00a0endorphins. And it makes you feel good just because you did it. Admit it, you feel good about yourself when you exercise.<\/li>\n
  7. Spend time with happy people. People that lift you up and bring you JOY! If you can’t spend time with them at least talk to them on the phone, through email or a text.<\/li>\n
  8. Get outside and enjoy nature. Go for a walk. Look around at the trees and the the plants growing. Really look at them.\u00a0Hike\u00a0to the top of a mountain and scream as loud as you can(make sure no one else is around first).<\/li>\n
  9. Spend time with little children. If you have small kids of your own or grandchildren they are the best thing to perk you up. They always look at life a little differently and make us see the good in the world.<\/li>\n
  10. And finally, believe there is good in the world and search it out. If you can’t find any that day, then be the good yourself!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    These are just some ways I try to beat the blahs and come out on the other side. Shopping is another thing I love to do and it always makes me happy, especially if I find a bargain. And\u00a0living in the present moment helps, it is really all we have. When we live in the future we are fearful and don’t know what it will bring. When we live in the past, it is sometimes too painful or we wish for happier times with someone who isn’t with us anymore. We have to learn not to beat ourselves up when we feel down and are at the point of giving up. No one ever feels happy all the time. There are some people that always seem to have this smile plastered on their face and I wonder what is really going on there.<\/p>\n

    We all have times when we just want to sit in our pajamas all day, eat ice cream, watch sad movies and cry.(I may or may not have done this a time or two). But we just can’t\u00a0let it become a habit. Don’t hide away from everyone and everything that could make you happy again. Let people help, you never know who will be the one that steps up and makes your day. But people can’t help unless you let them know you need them. People are always amazing me… in good ways and bad. But more often than not, it is good.<\/p>\n

    I have to tell you, I didn’t even feel like writing today. Last night I was supposed to write my weekly post and I just didn’t have it in me. I asked myself, what can I write about? I felt like I had nothing left in me that I wanted to share. So I just went to bed. Then I woke up today determined to not let all I am going through define me and my life. I decided to write about how I was feeling because that is what I do. I share my feelings in my writing and I feel so much JOY when I hit the publish button. So\u00a0that is what I did. Thank you for always being here to listen and for telling me how much my writing affects you. Find the good!<\/p>\n

    As always I leave you with a question and a quote.<\/p>\n

    Do you ever feel like giving up? What do you do to keep going?<\/p>\n

    “I am going to keep having fun every day I have left, because there is no other way of life. You just have to decide whether you are a Tigger or an Eeyore.” ~ Randy Pausch\u00a0<\/strong><\/em> (I love this quote!)<\/p>\n

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