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And who gave it to me…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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“Just eat ice cream and you’ll feel much better”- me<\/p><\/div>\n

Advice…what is it? Why do we listen to others and why did our parents bother to even give it to us…were we even listening? Googling advice…here is what comes up.. “Advice, noun….guidance or recommendations concerning prudent future action, typically given by someone regarded as knowledgeable or authoritative<\/strong>. Not everyone who has given me advice has been knowledgeable or authoritative..well thinking about this, I guess my Mom was authoritative in that she was my Mother.<\/p>\n

I am good at giving advice, but not at taking it. And one thing is for sure, I am not good at taking my own advice. Having said that, here is some of the best advice I have received over the years and it has stuck with me to this day.<\/p>\n

“Lower your expectations” –\u00a0<\/strong>A \u00a0good friend gave me this advice at least 20 years ago and I have never forgot it. I was always getting hurt by others and telling her that I didn’t understand why this happened. One night she told me that not everyone was as kind or generous as I was and that is why they couldn’t live up to my expectations. And she said, maybe If I lowered mine I wouldn’t be hurt so much. I have tried to live by this and it has helped. Sometimes it still makes me sad that people can’t be kind or do what I would do. But that is just the way it is..<\/p>\n

“You should be a writer” –\u00a0<\/strong>I have been told this several times in my life. Once by a teacher I had in school and often by friends and family members. I never had the time when the kids were growing up. I know its a lame excuse….But I am writing now. Just a blog, but I’m writing. I still have a book or two in me, maybe one day I will let them out.<\/p>\n

“Never let a big dog jump on you” –\u00a0<\/strong>Another good friend’s mother told her this and she shared it with me. I think this is\u00a0good advice and really a metaphor. I think it means to try not to let something you don’t want to happen to you… happen to you.<\/p>\n

“Make sure you always wear\u00a0clean underwear” –\u00a0<\/strong>This one is from my mom. She always said you never know when you will have to go to the hospital and you need to have clean underwear on if that happens. I did have to go once and thank goodness my underwear was clean. Thanks Mom!<\/p>\n

“Never change who you are for someone” –\u00a0<\/strong>I don’t remember who told me this but it stuck with me and I never have changed for anyone. I am me, take me as I am.<\/p>\n

“If a relationship\u00a0isn’t right, you\u00a0can’t fix it. And if it’s good, you can’t mess it up” –\u00a0<\/strong>An older woman friend of mine told me this once when I was in the beginning stages of a relationship and asked her\u00a0how I could fix it. She also said you shouldn’t have to fix it at the very beginning, it should be awesome. I never forgot this or her. And it is so very true.<\/p>\n

“Never ever stay with someone who gets\u00a0violently\u00a0angry wth you for throwing away a dirty napkin” –\u00a0<\/strong>Advice from another friend…she is no longer with him. Pretty\u00a0good advice I think. Also never stay with someone that gets angry because you forgot the taco sauce when you made tacos… just a little advice from me..I know it’s important to have taco sauce when you make tacos, however to throw things and scream at someone is not…<\/p>\n

“Ice cream, pie and wine can make anything better” –\u00a0<\/strong>This is from me. I know it can’t fix everything but it sure does help.<\/p>\n

“Roll down the windows and turn up the music” –\u00a0<\/strong>This great advice is from the show on NBC, “This Is Us” Love this show by the way. I think this is awesome advice, so next time\u00a0you have a bad day or life is kicking your butt… get in the car, head out on a back road…roll down the windows and turn up the music…<\/p>\n

“Never go to bed angry” –\u00a0<\/strong>Again… Mom. She always told me to make up with whoever I was angry with before going to sleep.This is good advice and something we should all adhere to. Life is short, so fix what is broken and tell people you love them. We aren’t guaranteed another day. And if you wake up the next day and the person you were angry at isn’t around anymore, you can never fix it.<\/p>\n

“When you are 90 and sitting in your rocker on the front porch, think about this problem, this thing you are upset about, will it be important then?” –\u00a0<\/strong>Me again..I always ask myself this question or people who come to me with a problem. It works when you ask this, because most of the time we spend worrying over such trivial, insignificant things… Not the things that really matter.<\/p>\n

“Never lose your sense of humor” –\u00a0<\/strong>Actually it’s “Don’t ever lose your sense of humor Dan, don’t EVER lose your sense of humor.” This line is from “About Last Night”, the movie with Jim Belushi and Rob Lowe. Love this line..and so true..we must always keep our sense of humor…it will help us get through this thing called life. Believe me if I didn’t have a sense of humor I don’t know how I would have survived the things I’ve been through.<\/p>\n

“If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with” –\u00a0<\/strong>Crosby, Stills and Nash. Well they sang this song but seriously a guy once said this to me…think he had ulterior motives that night. I may or may not have listened to him.<\/p>\n

That’s it for now, I have more but I will keep them for another time. If you have a piece of great advice someone once gave you please tell us in the comments. I would love to hear them. What was the best advice anyone ever gave you?<\/p>\n

“Advice is like snow – the softer it falls, the longer it dwells upon, and the deeper it sinks into the mind.” ~ Samuel Taylor Coleridge<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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