{"id":418,"date":"2016-09-08T21:18:09","date_gmt":"2016-09-09T01:18:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/?p=418"},"modified":"2016-09-08T21:18:09","modified_gmt":"2016-09-09T01:18:09","slug":"workin-for-a-livin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/?p=418","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Workin&#8217; For A Livin&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Credits to Huey Lewis and the News<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_419\" style=\"width: 877px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/pexels-photo-30072-large.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-419\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-419\" class=\"size-full wp-image-419\" src=\"http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/pexels-photo-30072-large.jpg\" alt=\"No, I don't work here...\" width=\"867\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/pexels-photo-30072-large.jpg 867w, http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/pexels-photo-30072-large-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/pexels-photo-30072-large-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 867px) 100vw, 867px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-419\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">No, I don&#8217;t work here&#8230;Thank goodness!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m taking what they giving cause I&#8217;m working for a livin&#8221;&#8230;while their grammar and spelling isn&#8217;t exactly up to par, this sums up my feelings today. Thanks Huey!<\/p>\n<p>I retired last year after getting\u00a0laid off from a job I loved and had hoped to retire from, just not when that particular company decided it was time for me to go. After it happened, I thought\u00a0you know what maybe this is a good thing. I had worked long enough and really didn&#8217;t want to work anymore. I started writing this blog and loved it. I was spending more time with my family, my grandkids and my friends and it was enough. I was enjoying my forced retirement. I was enjoying my life. All of that changed a little over a month ago when my son passed away. I suddenly had too much time on my hands and all that extra time caused me to think and I didn&#8217;t want to think. It was too painful to think.<\/p>\n<p>So I made a decision. I decided to go back to work. Look I&#8217;m not crazy.. I&#8217;m not going to work everyday and I&#8217;m not going to work long hours but I want to get out of the house and make a little extra money since the social security thing isn&#8217;t all its cracked up to be. Well, at least in my case. I was a stay at home Mom for a long time and then waitressed for many years. You don&#8217;t make a big pay check waitressing, you make money with the tips you get, and\u00a0we didn&#8217;t have to claim them back then. Hence the reason I am not making big bucks being on social security.<\/p>\n<p>My main reason for going back though is the interaction with people. The customers and the people I will be working with every day. I love being out among people. I really missed that since being laid off. So I called an old boss of mine and asked her if she could use my help and to my surprise she was overjoyed that I was even thinking of coming back. I met with her today and we got caught up on what was going on in our lives and went over my schedule. I told her I didn&#8217;t want to overwhelm myself and go crazy so we are starting out slow. This is a retail job and can get a bit chaotic so I want to see how it goes.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>&#8220;Concentrate on your job and you will forget your other troubles.&#8221; ~ William Feather<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Reading that quote above&#8230;I don&#8217;t know that working again will make me forget all my troubles or make me miss my son any less but it will give me a few hours where I won&#8217;t think about it non stop. Because you can only clean and wash so much. And I am still thinking even while doing that. Also this whole work thing could be really good for me. I just read an article on CNN&#8217;s website, it was about older workers and said\u00a0that working around 25 hours a week was linked to an improvement in\u00a0their cognitive performance, but more than 25 shows a decrease. Not planning to\u00a0work more than 25, that&#8217;s for sure. I don&#8217;t want my cognitive performance to suffer. I&#8217;m thinking maybe one to two days a week is good for now. After all it is called work for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>Websters definition of &#8220;work&#8221; &#8211; a job or activity that you do regularly especially in order to earn money. Well, yeah, why else would you work? I know some people don&#8217;t do it for the money, they do it because they love whatever it is they are doing. I&#8217;ve heard it said, if you love what you do it isn&#8217;t work. I have heard this statement made many times and Steve Jobs said, &#8220;the only way to do great work is to love what you do.&#8221; Unfortunately,\u00a0the things I love to do just don&#8217;t earn me any money. Things like reading, lunch with friends, writing this blog&#8230;or eating ice cream and potato chips. 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