{"id":154,"date":"2015-08-21T14:06:11","date_gmt":"2015-08-21T14:06:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/?p=154"},"modified":"2016-05-23T18:22:49","modified_gmt":"2016-05-23T22:22:49","slug":"i-cant-hear-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/?p=154","title":{"rendered":"I CAN&#8217;T HEAR YOU&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>And yes I am yelling&#8230;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_350\" style=\"width: 900px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/marketing-man-person-communication-large.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-350\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-350\" class=\"size-full wp-image-350\" src=\"http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/marketing-man-person-communication-large.jpg\" alt=\"a little louder please...\" width=\"890\" height=\"593\" srcset=\"http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/marketing-man-person-communication-large.jpg 890w, http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/marketing-man-person-communication-large-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/marketing-man-person-communication-large-768x512.jpg 768w, http:\/\/helpfulhellion.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/marketing-man-person-communication-large-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 890px) 100vw, 890px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-350\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">a little louder please&#8230;<\/p><\/div>\n<p>This isn&#8217;t something I like talking about, but I feel the need to speak for all of us who have any kind of hearing problem. I am almost totally deaf in one ear and about 80% in the other. I wear a hearing aid but most likely will be needing to have one in both ears in the very near future.<\/p>\n<p>The reason for my talking about it today is I want to raise awareness and hopefully by doing so, maybe make people have a little compassion for the hearing impaired. I struggle on a daily basis to understand people in any number of situations. I can&#8217;t always hear servers in restaurants or clerks in the stores. People have a tendency to talk fast and or mumble which makes hearing them even harder. If I am going to be in a situation where I know it is going to be hard to hear the person and it is important for me to do so(like at my recent eye exam), I will stop them before they even start talking and tell them I wear a hearing aid and would they speak slowly and clearly.<\/p>\n<p>I have to constantly ask people to repeat what they said, sometimes 3 times(that is my limit). Very often, what happens is I still am not getting\u00a0it and just nod or answer to what I&#8217;ve thought they said. Then\u00a0they stand there staring at me with a blank look in their eyes because I&#8217;m clearly not answering the question correctly. Sometimes I just walk away.<\/p>\n<p>Not being able to hear is hard. It isn&#8217;t something someone can tell about you when they see you. Even when you are with family and friends that do know, they tend to forget and talk in a normal tone of voice so I can&#8217;t always join in the conversation. Even when I do, people think it&#8217;s funny when I mistake what they&#8217;ve said, when &#8220;Do you want some brie&#8221;, becomes &#8220;Do you have to pee&#8221;. I agree that is funny and I laugh along with them. But sometimes its not funny. Sometimes it just hurts. It is hurtful to make fun of someone with a hearing impairment, just like making fun of any other impairment.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t like having this affliction. 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